Women having sex at parties

Sex parties are events where people are allowed to participate in sexual activity with others, often in view of the other attendees. We asked Georgia Di Mattos, co-founder of home testing sexual health app iPlaySafe , to discuss the benefits, misconceptions and etiquette at sex parties — and share advice about how to pick the right event for you:. The adult lifestyle is expanding, and the adult partying scene is growing fast, says Di Mattos. How long they last depends on the party.

Growing up, not many people talked to me about sex , but the few who did made one thing clear: It was a big deal. With the exception of one longterm friend with benefits, I steadfastly held to my no-intercourse-outside-a-relationship rule throughout my 20s. I held to this belief even as I became a sex writer, went to clothing-optional resorts, and explored fringe sexual practices like extended orgasm and sexological bodywork. Likely due to a combination of this shame and the fact that I was still getting comfortable with sex parties, I stepped into this new world slowly.

New York offers no shortage of options for adults seeking a departure from the routine, and my foray into the lifestyle started with a BDSM event in I realized giving and receiving pleasure in front of an audience was appealing to me, and after doing an internet search for more ways to participate in the scene, I applied to a collective based in Brooklyn that holds monthly swinger parties. Initially, my reservations outweighed my excitement. Would sex be mandatory?

If they want a glass of wine, you pour it for them. If they want to use you as a footstool, then you drop down to your hands and knees and give them your back. I was 24 when I went to my first sex party.